Pre-launch · Sri Lanka 🇱🇰

Meet the person,
not the picture.

Pearmo is an anonymous, psychology-matched dating app. No swiping, no public photos — just a few real, verified matches a day, and conversations that open only when you both say yes.

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Your face stays yours. Show up as your avatar.
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Maya · The FoxColombo · 3 km away
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Fox and wolf avatars on a cafe date
Matched on personality
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Dev · The WolfConsent given · chat unlocked

Pick who you show up as — 24 animals, endless personality

Why Pearmo exists

Dating apps have a trust problem.

We surveyed 93 people before writing a line of code. Women told us the same two things, over and over: they don't trust that other users are real, and they don't want their photos out there. Every app felt built around hookups. So we built the opposite.

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0answers we heard on repeat: “are they real?” and “not my photos”
0swipes in Pearmo. Curated matches instead

“Every dating app here feels like it was built around hookups. I just want to know the person on the other side is real — without putting my face on the internet.”

How it works

Slow by design.

Real screens from the Pearmo app. No mockups needed — the MVP already works.

STEP 01

Answer honestly. It can't be gamed.

A psychology-based questionnaire built on the Big Five — reverse-scored, so playing it cool doesn't work. Your trait scores stay private, always.

Pearmo personality radar screen
STEP 02

Get a few curated matches a day.

No swiping, no endless grid. Compatibility does the heavy lifting and brings you a handful of people actually worth your time.

Pearmo trait scores screen
STEP 03

Break the ice before the chat.

Chat doesn't just open. Both people consent, then you unlock it by playing icebreaker games together — shared music taste included.

Pearmo music match screen
STEP 04

Say what you're actually here for.

Something serious? Say it up front. Pearmo profiles lead with intent and values — ambition, emotional depth — not gym selfies.

Pearmo about screen with intent
Fox and wolf avatars playing an icebreaker game together

Games first. Chat second.

Icebreakers turn “hey” into an actual conversation — you already know you click before the first message.

Pearmo · Icebreakers
Only you can see this — matches never see your trait scores. Compatibility is computed, not exposed.
The science bit

Matched on who you are.

Six research-backed dimensions, drawn from the Big Five and attachment theory. We measure them properly — reverse-scored items, validated scales — then match people whose traits actually work together.

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OpennessCurious, creative, open to new ideas
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ConscientiousnessOrganized, reliable, goal-driven
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ExtraversionWhere you draw your social energy
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AgreeablenessWarm, empathetic, cooperative
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Emotional stabilityCalm and steady under stress
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Attachment securityComfort with closeness and trust
Safety, not vibes

Real people. Really verified.

Anonymity for you doesn't mean anonymity for bad actors. Every layer of Pearmo assumes trust has to be earned by the platform first.

Liveness + ID verification

A selfie liveness check and national ID verification, so the person and the age are both real. Verified badges you can actually believe.

Your photos stay private

No public photo grid. You show up as your avatar, and your real photos are shared only when you choose, with who you choose.

Consent gates everything

Chat, photo reveals, contact details — nothing moves forward unless both people opt in. Slowing down is the feature.

Launching first in Sri Lanka

Be there when the masks come off.

The MVP is built. We're opening the doors soon — join the waitlist and you'll be among the first matches in Colombo.

🦊 You're on the list — see you at launch.